Jesus Is King

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In the story of Esther, King Xerxes is very hard to please (Esther 1:10-22)—but how wonderful is it that we have a king who is worthy of our praise (Hebrews 1:3-4), that does not require us to jump through hoops for his love (Ephesians 2:8-9). When I graduated from college, I already had my real estate license and was ready and willing to take on the world. I started a new job as a marketing director, continued to sell real estate, and then started a network marketing business that allowed me to leave my 9-to-5 job to raise my daughter. The more I pushed and succeeded, the more I realized it was never enough. No matter what level of success I reached, there was always another level that required more of me. At that point, I couldn’t even tell who my real friends were. I had known God my whole life but I was not living in a way that said Jesus was the king of my life. I was striving instead of surrendering.

God has a funny way of letting us burn out so he can fill us up. When I finally got real with myself, I discovered that all my striving was coming from a place of very deep wounding that I had swept under the rug many years earlier. Jesus extended an invitation to me that meant I didn’t have to take care of myself anymore. He gave me fresh eyes to see that he had blessed me with a husband that was just waiting to take care of me and I could trust. He showed me that I could trust him (God) with what was most important to me, and that I would be taken care of. When I finally started living out my identity as a daughter of King Jesus, the blessings just fell from the sky like rain. The blessings I am speaking of are peace, contentment, joy, and rest. I finally was able to view my journey in life from an eternal perspective instead of a worldly perspective. I was no longer a prisoner to the thought that I was only loved because of what I could do for others, but I was loved because I belong to Jesus and he is the king of my life. Surrender to Jesus and the blessings will fall like rain.

Questions:
Do you struggle with thinking that what you do is never enough?

Do you feel contentment in your everyday life?

Do you want to have more peace and rest in your life?

Next Steps:
Share your answers to the above with a trusted friend.

If you are feeling isolated, reach out to family or friends, and you will find that you are not alone in your struggles.

 Prayer:
Father, we thank you for all the blessings that are ours because we belong to you. Please remind each of us that you love us unconditionally. Thank you that we are loved, accepted, and forgiven. Thank you that we can come to you with hard questions and you listen to us. Thank you for sending people into our lives that can remind us of these truths. Amen.


This post was written by April Willer, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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Pray First

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During the weekend service, Oregon Campus Pastor Andy Rectenwald spoke on the book of Esther. She was the beautiful wife of King Xerxes I and was of Jewish descent. She and Mordecai persuaded the king to reverse the decree to annihilate all the Jews in the Persian Empire. At first, Esther was not receptive to Mordecai’s request to intercede on behalf of her people. She knew that anyone, including herself, would risk death by appearing before the king if they had not been called. (Esther 4:11) In the second request, Mordecai pointed out the cold hard fact that her life would not be spared and suggested that she may have been made queen for just this purpose. (Esther 4:14)

Esther 4:15-16      
15 Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: 16 “Go and gather together all the Jews of Susa and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. My maids and I will do the same. And then, though it is against the law, I will go in to see the king. If I die, I must die.”

Even though prayer is not mentioned in these verses, Esther knew the importance of fasting as a way of drawing closer to God. She requested others to join her in the fast to help build up her confidence and strength to confront the king. The fate of the Jewish people was not in her, but in God. Her own fate depended on her faithfulness to God. It was not until she was prepared, through prayer with God, that she was able to do something that made an eternal difference.

CedarCreek Church is a proponent of “Pray First.” Our church passes out blue bracelets with these words inscribed in white twice a year as a reminder of the significance of praying before everything. We should pray before starting our day, before starting a task, before meetings, before dates, before phone calls, before disciplining our children, etc. Prayer should become a priority for us as Christ followers, and not just in preparation for important decisions or facing trials. We need to remember to pray first, often, and always.

Psalms 55:17 (NKJV)
Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, And He shall hear my voice.

Andy’s bottom line was: My purpose is to give eternal meaning to the mundane. Queen Esther’s life seemed anything but mundane given that she was the queen of a kingdom. As a follower of Christ, we too are in a kingdom, the kingdom of God (more on this tomorrow). Therefore, everything we do can make an eternal difference, even everyday occurrences.

Questions:
What are your biggest challenges in making prayer a priority?

Many Christians want to spend time in prayer with God but lack the spiritual discipline to do so. If this sounds familiar, what do you need to do to gain spiritual discipline?

God placed Queen Esther in her position for a reason, and she needed the courage to fulfill his plan. Has he placed you somewhere to fulfill his plan for you?

Next Steps:
We have a spiritual opportunity to be part of a MEANINGFUL moment starting Aug. 10. This is the first day of CedarCreek’s 21-Days of Prayer. Challenge yourself to participate. This might just be the start of a great habit of praying first!

Prayer:
Mighty Father in heaven, give me the wisdom to know that I need to pray before everything I do. Help me to understand that life is better when I am in constant dialogue with you. Grant me patience so I may see your will for my life. Give me opportunities to share spiritual blessings so I may make an eternal difference in others. In your Son’s name I pray, amen.


This post was written by Jennifer Macke. Jenn has a son, daughter, granddaughter, and grandson, and she thanks God every day for them. She is enjoying retirement and feels blessed to be writing for LivingItOut. She was raised in an Evangelical Church, but her spiritual life awakened when she started attending CedarCreek.


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Show Up on Purpose

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Oh, the pain! The suffering! The very thought of it was impossible to accept — a career promotion with an unwanted stipulation attached to it. REALLY? Yes, really. There was a short window of opportunity to speak up or forever hold my peace.

Thankfully, God gave me the courage to confront the impossible. Were it not for his empowerment, ignoring the elephant in the room would have been easy. However, the opportunity to speak up about what needed to be addressed was laid right at my feet. Not responding with truth would have been wrong and left me full of regret. Undoubtedly, God allowed this circumstance as an opportunity for spiritual and personal growth for me.

That experience mirrors the focus of Oregon Campus Pastor Andy Rectenwald’s teaching on the story of Esther. In yesterday’s LIO, we read about Esther’s reluctance to act upon Mordecai’s plan for her to go before the king to convince him not to allow his minister, Haman, to kill all the Jews in Susa.

Can you imagine if Esther would have missed out on playing a pivotal role in the salvation of the Jews? Imagine the regret she might have experienced. Esther didn’t miss out though, because Mordecai helped her shift her focus from the power of King Xerxes to the power of God. That shift in focus is what gave her strength in her weakness and allowed her to find the faith and courage needed for the task.

So it is with you and me. Maybe, just maybe, you are in a position to be the hands and feet of Christ by standing up for someone, fighting against injustice, or dismantling an evil plan?

During the weekend service, we were challenged to show up on purpose. What does that mean? It means that we have the opportunity to step into every conversation, circumstance, or task ready to make a difference — at work, home, in our neighborhoods, at a checkout counter, to name a few. Every interaction is an opportunity to give eternal meaning to a mundane moment.

Questions:
What holds you back from saying what needs to be said? What keeps you from standing up for someone else? What stops you from fighting against injustice?

Next Steps:
Choose to grow spiritually. Download the CedarCreek app and dive into “Resources” where multiple tools are available for your spiritual growth.

Join a Group in the fall semester.

Prayer:
God, you allow circumstances to surface in my life that I often fail to recognize. Sometimes I even run from the opportunity. Please forgive me for doubting you and your strength within me. Help me step into daily opportunities where I can give eternal meaning to the mundane. May your light shine in me and through me each day. It is my desire to put you on display with my words and my actions. In the precious name of Jesus, amen.


This post was written by Karen Peck. Karen retired in March 2018 from Lucas County Information Services. She has been married over forty years. Karen rejoices over God’s faithfulness and God’s patience in her life and in her marriage. Nothing matters more to Karen than her relationship with God and her entire family. Her immeasurable faith in Christ and His ability to restore the broken runs deep within.


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Intentional Obedience

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Have you ever felt God was leading you to do something you didn’t want to do? Maybe you were too busy, obedience was too hard, or you were afraid. Sometimes the last thing I want to do is to obey God. It is easy for me to find excuses for why I can’t obey: I don’t have the time, the energy, the ability, or the desire to obey. I am ashamed to admit that my desire to be disobedient usually stems from my own selfishness or pride.

Andy Rectenwald, Oregon Campus Pastor, spoke about Queen Esther during the weekend message. Queen Esther and her beloved adopted father, Mordecai, were Jews. Haman, an evil man, tricked King Xerxes (Esther’s husband) to decree that all the Jewish people be destroyed. (The king had no idea Esther was Jewish.) Mordecai asked Esther to go before the king and ask that he spare the lives of the Jews.

In Esther 4:11, she replies: “All the king’s officials and even the people in the provinces know that anyone who appears before the king in his inner court without being invited is doomed to die unless the king holds out his gold scepter. And the king has not called for me to come in 30 days.”

I don’t know about you, but God has never asked me to put my life in danger for him. At times, I have a hard time obeying him because his plans for me are inconvenient or I want my own way. Yet Mordecai was asking Esther to risk her life to save the Jews. I understand why Esther initially said, “N0!”

Esther 4:13-14
Mordecai sent this reply to Esther: “Don’t think for a moment that because you’re in the palace you will escape when all other Jews are killed. 14 If you keep quiet at a time like this, deliverance and relief for the Jews will arise from some other place, but you and your relatives will die. Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”

Esther loved and respected her  adopted father (they were actually cousins…see Esther 2:7) and obeyed him. She knew her obedience could lead to a death sentence. She knew she didn’t have the ability to save the Jews on her own. She requested that all the Jews of Susa along with her maids fast with her for three days and nights. Esther formed a plan and had the courage to go before the King in his inner courts.

Esther’s obedience saved the Jews. She showed great wisdom and courage. She prepared and accomplished God’s task for her. I know when I have listened and obeyed God, he has given me the supernatural ability to accomplish things I was unable to accomplish on my own. God has a purpose for each and every one of our lives. It is so important that we obey…. because he put you in that job, that situation, for such a time as this.

Questions:
What is God calling you to do? How do you prepare to be obedient? What are the reasons you say no to God?

Next Steps:
Pray and fast when God asks you to do something hard. Ask others to pray and fast for you. Spend time in his Word. Join a Group. Pray and encourage others. Praise God for his miracles.

PRAYER:
God, I am amazed that you want to use me in your perfect plan. I am overwhelmed by your grace and mercy. Help me to always listen to and obey you. Help me to bring glory to your name and accomplish the purpose you have for my life. Help me to encourage and pray for others. I praise your glorious name! Amen.


This post was written by Marsha Raymond. Marsha has been happily married to her husband, Jeff, for 30 years. They have two grown sassy and fearless daughters. She loves spending time with God, her family and friends, reading, riding bicycles, yoga and walking.


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Meaning in the Mundane

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Growing up, I spent a lot of time sitting on the green seats of my family’s white 1978 Buick Estate Station Wagon. Throughout my early childhood, my typical day would start with a 20-minute ride to school, sitting next to my twin sister in the back row of our car, looking out the window of the tailgate. Those rear-facing seats always made traffic lights a little awkward. We made this drive six days a week—five days for school and one day for church, back and forth, totaling four hours a week.

We often made stops on the way home from school to grab groceries. Sometimes my mom ran into the store while my four siblings and I remained in the car. Usually, she would be in and out pretty quickly, but occasionally a checkout line would be long, a prescription wouldn’t be ready, or something else would delay her, meaning more time in the car.

As kids, my parents kept us very busy. Piano lessons, sports at the local YMCA, and gymnastics filled our schedule on weeknights. All this running around earned my mom a black and yellow checkered keychain with the words “Mom’s Taxi” written on it. It also meant even more time sitting on the green seats looking out the back window.

Riding around in our car was an ordinary, everyday occurrence for me. Oregon Campus Pastor, Andy Rectenwald, used the word “mundane” to describe these everyday moments. Mundane moments are the humdrum, day-to-day things we do in life, like sitting in a car as we commute to and from work.

Everyday moments like these don’t have to lack excitement or purpose, though. When I think back to my childhood, some of my greatest memories are from that car’s back seat. We had a ton of fun in the car playing games and dreaming about the future. Together as a family, we made our time in the car a meaningful and significant part of our lives.

We all have mundane moments. Things like doing the laundry or the dishes don’t exactly make us jump out of bed in the morning, but they could.

This weekend, Pastor Andy shared that God created us to bring eternal meaning to everyday moments. We can do this when we show up on purpose, stepping into mundane moments with our eyes open, searching for opportunities to connect with God and others.

Moments of eternal meaning don’t have to be big mountaintop experiences; God can use the smallest parts of our day. When we run into the coffee shop, we can take a moment to encourage the barista. When we check out at the grocery store, we can ask the clerk how we can pray for them. When we drive somewhere, we can sing a song of worship. When we do the dishes, we can take time to pray for our neighbors. No moment is too small for God to use, and when you choose to show up on purpose in them, inviting God to be a part of them, you will be amazed at how he can bring eternal meaning to the day-to-day parts of your life.

Romans 11:36
36For everything comes from him and exists by his power and is intended for his glory. All glory to him forever! Amen.

Questions:
What are the mundane moments of your life?

How can you bring eternal meaning to them?

Read Romans 11:36. What can this verse teach us about every moment of the day.

Next Steps:
Write down ways that you can show up on purpose in your most common mundane moments this week.

Tell someone your plans to turn a mundane moment into an eternal moment.

Prayer:
God, thank you for caring about every moment of our day. I know that you are always at work, even in the mundane. You are always revealing yourself to us and giving us opportunities to point people to you. Open my eyes to these opportunities to connect with you and with others. Help me find the eternal meaning throughout my day-to-day life and use me as I choose to show up on purpose each moment of my day. In Jesus’ name, amen.


This post was written by Ben Bockert. Ben is a proud husband and father of three beautiful daughters. He is honored to serve as the Director of the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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A Brand New Me

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Have you ever reinvented yourself because you felt lost or maybe you didn’t like who you saw in the mirror, only to have old friends try to make you feel ashamed for changing? Are you currently going through a change to discover the new you and afraid of what people might think?

Commitment is hard.

This past weekend, we witnessed a few people being baptized during the service. Baptism is an outward sign or representation of a commitment that has already been made in the heart to Christ. When you decide to get baptized, you are stepping up in front of the world to show them how serious you are toward God, who has already sacrificed so much to prove his love to you.

Baptism is a bold declaration. As you dive underwater, you are telling the world that you are saying goodbye to your old self.  And as you come out of the water, you are showing the world that you have chosen to live a new life through Jesus Christ.

Colossians 2:12-14
12 For you were buried with Christ when you were baptized. And with him you were raised to new life because you trusted the mighty power of God, who raised Christ from the dead.
13 You were dead because of your sins and because your sinful nature was not yet cut away. Then God made you alive with Christ, for he forgave all our sins. 14 He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it to the cross.

With this bold step, there is no need to worry about the people who don’t approve of your new life. As Alicia Keys put it in her song “Brand New Me”:  “If you were a friend, you want to get to know me again. If you were worth a while, you’d be happy to see me smile.” The one who really matters approves—God already gave his blessing.

Questions:
Have you ever made a public declaration of your new life by being baptized? If you haven’t, what is holding you back from taking this step? If you have, are you still committing yourself daily to your union with Christ?

Next Steps:
Consider being baptized this month at your local campus. Visit cedarcreek.tv/baptism to sign-up and receive more information.

If you have already been baptized, take your next step. Dive into your new life with God by joining a group or use your gifts to serve others by joining the DreamTeam. Share your love for God with everyone. Pray for family and old friends who don’t support your walk with Christ.

Prayer:
God, thank you for choosing me before I knew you had. Guide and protect me as I continue to grow through your word. Thank you for giving me the strength to dance out of my grave clothes as I continuously discover new parts of the person I was always meant to be. Grant me patience and understanding when my walk gets hard. Amen.


This post was written by Jaron Camp, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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Who’s On The Throne?

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Psalm 37:4 (ESV)
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

What delights you? As a self-centered, know-it-all, twenty-something doing whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted to, I was the delight of my heart. I was firmly seated on the throne of my life.

Then I met Jesus. In a seminal moment brought on by a life of bad behavior, I was awakened to the fact that I was circling the drain. I felt like I was lost and on my way to hell. It was then that I told God I was sorry and asked him to forgive me. I knew he sent Jesus to save me from my pride and arrogance—and what they would cost me for eternity if I didn’t turn myself over to his care.

At that moment, I became a new creation through Christ. Over time, I developed a desire to know all about God and what mattered to him.  Instead of delighting in money, possessions, and the approval of others, I wanted my life to align with God’s will. He became the center of my life. What delighted me changed from me-centered to God-centered. Life became about the joy, friendship, and wonder of being held in his hands above everything else. Now, my delight is based on drawing closer to God, who loves me unconditionally and wants to know me personally. The desires of his heart have become mine.

I realized he was responsible for all the good things, experiences, and people in my life, not luck or anything I engineered. Then I stopped taking credit for the intelligence, passions, and athleticism he had gifted me with and acknowledged they were intended for his purposes. So far so good. But here’s the hardest truth to embrace because it is so painful—even devastating—he taught me that the struggles, losses, failures, tragedies, and disappointments in my life were gifts too. In other words, what others meant for harm, God used for good.

Romans 8:28
And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. 

What a relief to learn that the bad things weren’t punishments or a sign that God had somehow “dropped the ball.” Rather they were lessons, permitted by God, to teach me things I refused to learn any other way. It has been through life’s hardest times that I have experienced my closest moments with God and learned that serving him is my greatest purpose. He is the delight of my life and serving him, not myself, delights me most of all.

Lead Pastor Ben Snyder talked about the difference between delighting in and being delighted by something. I’m delighted by riding bikes down a country road on a sunny day or hiking up a mountain to marvel at the views with my husband. I am delighted by greeting the people who come for fellowship and to worship God at the Whitehouse Campus. But I delight IN the Lord. Ben described it as being pliable, and in the hands and care of the Lord. Delighted by something indicates we are in control. Delighting in God means he is at the center of who we are in all things. Such a change in perspective will have a miraculous effect on what delights you.

Questions:
Are you pliable in God’s hands? If not, why?

Which of the delights in your life would you be better off without?

Next Steps:

  1. Read Psalm 37 and then Psalm 139.
  2. Replay Ben’s message this week and drink it in deeply. Ask God for a deeper understanding.
  3. If you are ready to delight in God then acknowledge your sins to him, ask for forgiveness, and embrace Christ as the one true Savior who makes our relationships with God possible.

Prayer:
Lord, you are worthy of our delight. Not just because of what you have done but because of who you are. We can find delight in you, not just today, but for eternity. Today, I praise you and choose to delight in you. I love you and thank you. Amen.


This post was written by Martha Smith, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study. Martha describes herself as a lover of Christ who likes to share faith with others.


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Ugh! I bet! Interesting.

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There’s a video online of a woman sitting outside with her guitar, ready to record herself playing a song. As she’s about to start, we hear her neighbor in the background tell her, “I got poison ivy!” The woman removes her hand from her guitar and responds with a genuine, “Noooo.” The neighbor starts going into detail about where the poison ivy has affected her and where she thinks she got it. The woman with the guitar reflects the neighbor’s concern with a series of responses like, “Ooooffpphh!”; “Ugh!”; “I bet”; and “Interesting!” She pairs them with shocked facial expressions to show her investment in the conversation, even though we viewers know she would really like to get back to her music.

We’ve all had those conversations. We enjoy our neighbors, but we also know exactly what to say to keep things from getting too personal, maintaining a boundary that guarantees an acceptable endtime to the smalltalk.

During his weekend message, Lead Pastor Ben Snyder described viewing God as merely a friendly neighbor: He is present. (He lives right there and lets me borrow sugar in a pinch.) He is personal. (We can share our poison ivy woes with him.) And he is pleasant. (We smalltalk without investing too much.) While these adjectives are true, they don’t paint the whole picture. And if we only see God as present, personal, and pleasant, we’re missing out on a deep, meaningful relationship with him.

Psalm 139: 1-4, 13, 16-17           
1 O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. 2 You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. 3 You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. 4 You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord.

13 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb.

16 You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. 17 How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered!

This is not describing a neighborly relationship. This is intimate. God already knows you on a deep level. But one-way relationships with people often don’t work, so why do we allow our relationship with God to be one-sided? We love to receive from him and for him to know us. But for an intimate relationship, it means we have to get to know him, as well. The more you know Jesus, the more you’ll love him. The more you love him, the more you’ll want to follow him. When you follow him, you’ll become more like him. And as a result, you’ll become who God made you to be!

Questions:
Indicators of a neighborly approach to God are keeping it casual, not depending on him, and trying to remain in control. Have you experienced distance and detachment from approaching God as a friendly neighbor? What can you do to transition from a neighborly relationship with God to an intimate one?

Next Steps:
When reading Scripture about Jesus, ask yourself, “What’s one thing I know for sure about Jesus after reading this?” As you build a habit of doing this, you’ll find your focus shifting from “How do I apply this to my life?” to “Wow, Jesus is so much more complex than I thought. I can’t wait to know him more!” You’ll find yourself growing more intimate with Jesus. My small group started doing this each week, and we are reading The Jesus-Centered Life by Rick Lawrence, which talks more about this approach. I highly recommend it!

Prayer:
Jesus, thank you for being patient with us as we navigate this world and our relationship with you. We want to know you, and for you to know us. One of our biggest struggles in this world is feeling like we’re not understood, but you get us. You know us inside and out, and you still love us! Thank you for your love and for your grace. Help us to seek an intimate relationship with you. Amen.


This post was written by Ashlee Grosjean. Ashlee is a blogger at GratefulSheep.com and a stay-at-home mom and wife. She loves writing for this team, and she hopes to help convey God’s message through this study.


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Delighting Hard

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There are many messages we hear in life about working hard:

  • “The only place where SUCCESS comes before WORK is in the dictionary.” —Vidal Sassoon
  • “Hard work beats talent if talent doesn’t work hard.” —Tim Notke, basketball coach
  • “I do not know anyone who has gotten to the top without hard work. That is the recipe.” —Margaret Thatcher

While these quotes may motivate us to work harder in our careers, in school, or in competition, they don’t apply to our relationships with God. Some people see God as a boss, and if God is the BOSS, then we must work harder to please the boss. It can be overwhelming trying to be “good enough” and doing all the right things. We can even become obsessed with NOT doing wrong things.

However, God is not worried about whether we are good enough or if we’re doing enough good. Through Jesus, we ARE enough. God wants us to delight in him because HE is enough.

Psalm 37:4 (ESV)
Delight yourself in the Lord; and he will give you the desires of your heart.

God doesn’t say “work harder” or “do better,” he says delight in me. It’s amazing how our view of God is transformed by this way of thinking.

What does it mean to delight in God?

When we seek God first, before anything (see Matthew 6:33), everything else seems to fall into place. Our desires become his desires. Our focus becomes his focus. Our hope, our goals, our delight is in him, his way, and even the desires of our heart get molded into Christ-like desires.

It is exhausting to work, work, work and never feel good enough. And, if work is the goal, we often feel disappointed, resentful even, when things don’t go our way after all we’ve done. Jesus didn’t die for us so that we could work harder. Instead he said, “I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance” (John 10:10 Holman Christian Standard Bible).

Psalm 46:10 tells us: “Be still, and know that I am God!” Other versions of the Bible interpret this same verse as “stop fighting” or “cease striving” and know. Are we striving to please God because we view him as our boss? Because what he wants for us is to be still and delight in him. Now, that’s a great boss!

Work harder? NO. DELIGHT in HIM. That’s the recipe for a successful, abundant life.

Questions:
Do you view God as a BOSS, as someone you need to continually please? How can delighting in him shift this thought process?

Next Steps:
Stop striving to do and be all you can to please God. Take some time away from it all today, to be still. Simply delight in who God is. Rest in the work that he has done through his son, Jesus. Conclude your time by journaling your gratitude to God for all he is and for all HE has done.

Prayer:
God, we thank you for loving us so much that you sent Jesus, your son, to die for us. There is nothing we can do on this earth that can compare to the work he has done. Help us to rest and delight in you. Help us to be still and KNOW that you are a loving, kind, and good God. In Jesus’ name, amen.


This post was written by Kendra Grubinski. Kendra is passionate about her relationship with Jesus and loves studying and sharing God’s Word. During the week, she is a Spanish Teacher at Findlay High School. She also enjoys spending time with her family and pups, reading, traveling, drinking good coffee and being active outdoors.


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Gracious Gifts

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Our series, Summer Side of Life, has taught us that life is best when you can relive meaningful moments by seeing, marking, and sharing them. During his weekend message, Lead Pastor Ben Snyder helped  to equip us so that we might have meaningful moments with God.

Psalm 37:4
Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.

Ben encouraged us to view God as “The Good Gift Giver” and to delight in him by delighting in what he has given us. We generally think of a gift as something given to us, without condition, rather than something that has to be earned.

How we respond to the giving of  a gift often depends on who we receive it from and if that gift is of any practical use to us. God’s gifts may not look like the presents you opened on Christmas last year, but they will be exactly what you need, when you need it.

In Ecclesiastes, Chapter 3, we see God’s gifts that are available to all mankind.

Ecclesiastes 3:12-13
12 So I concluded there is nothing better to do than to be happy and enjoy ourselves as long as we can. 13 And people should eat and drink and enjoy the fruits of their labor, for these are gifts from God.

This weekend, Ben encouraged us to list the things that we find delightful.  Often, It’s the simple things in life that bring us joy—like eating a great meal, sipping your favorite cocktail, celebrating with friends, and enjoying the work we do. Ecclesiastes tells us that all of these are gifts from God!

Yet often instead of finding delight, we look around and wonder why we don’t have what someone else has. This causes us to miss out on this gift of God. However, when we learn to be happy with what we have rather than constantly looking for bigger and better things, we can begin to delight in God, the good gift giver.

We have the gift of finding contentment in what we have, the gift of God’s Word, the gift of grace, forgiveness of our sins, eternal life, answers to our prayers. God has given us all these gifts and more.

We all have the choice of whether to accept these gifts, but we are told in Romans 11:29: “For God’s gifts and his call can never be withdrawn.” In another translation it says our gifts are irrevocable. This shows us where God stands: He will not withdraw his offer of gifts. He will not change his mind. God’s love, that agape love, is unconditional. No matter what we do, his love surrounds us, protects us, and nothing will stop him from loving us. He truly is a good gift giver and we can find delight in him.

Questions:
How do you view God? What gift are you longing for today? Do you long for friendship with God? Do you just need to know that he is with you?

Next Steps:
Thanking God for what he’s already given us is a way for our hearts to be receptive to what he will give us in the future. Life is better when we acknowledge what God is doing in our lives and thanking him for his love. Pray and thank him for all that he has given to you. Celebrate his love and open your heart to receive all that he longs to give you.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I take this moment to reflect on all the good gifts that you have given me in my life. I pray that the Holy Spirit opens my heart to receive all the gifts you have in store for me and that I might recognize how you are working in my life. Amen.


This post was written by Gary Schnabel, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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