Receiving and Giving God’s Grace – Why Prayer…

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“Saying grace” is not something we do to “keep God happy,” Lead Pastor Ben Snyder said last weekend. “That is the opposite of grace.” Instead, grace is the unconditional love and forgiveness God has given us through the sacrifice of his only begotten son, Jesus Christ, so that we wouldn’t suffer the price owed for our sins. God has offered grace to all of mankind since the beginning of time. Unfortunately, it’s a gift most have rejected.

What is this grace Ben was talking about? It is the “undeserved/unearned favor of God.” So what does saying grace have to do with that? It’s a humble reminder to thank the one  we owe for all that is good in our lives, in our day, and at our dinner table. It’s a reminder that we aren’t God, and we owe our lives to him.

Then again, have you ever felt you don’t need to be forgiven? That the issue was, or is, someone else’s fault. This is what the Bible says about that:

Isaiah 64:6
We are all infected and impure with sin. When we display our righteous deeds, they are nothing but filthy rags. Like autumn leaves, we wither and fall, and our sins sweep us away like the wind.

Last week, I needed a reminder of how much I need God’s grace every day. In confidence, I shared some information and fears I had about one family member with another family member. She immediately told the other person what I had said.

I felt betrayed, angry, and embarrassed. In my opinion, the person I told did a cruel and unhelpful thing without my explanation and without concern for anyone’s welfare. After all, I was going to discuss this issue with our family member, myself, the very next day.

Worst of all, I felt I had failed God … again. I felt like all my sacrifices, works, and good deeds were hollow and for nothing, because I had failed to keep my mouth shut and, consequently, had damaged or even broken our relationship.

Thanks to my participation in six, 26-week Step Studies through Celebrate Recovery over the last six years, I knew the first thing I needed to do was apologize. I needed to make amends to the person who was hurt by my words. So I sent her a heartfelt apology text and asked for permission to apologize in person. That was two weeks ago … still no response—but healing takes time.

I am sad, yet encouraged by this incident. Why? Because God has forgiven me and is still teaching me about my use of words to vent my fears. Still, it is so hard not to feel like I failed God and this sister. My prayer is that my family member will forgive me—for her sake as much as mine.

So when you have sinned against another—and failed to love and behave as God loves and behaves—ask God to forgive you and apologize to the person you have wronged. But—you must not have any expectations that the one you make amends to will forgive you on the spot, or at all. This is between the wronged person and God, as the Bible tells us: “All have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God” (Romans 3:23). We apologize because God orders us to. We can only hope to gain forgiveness from the person we wronged.

2 Corinthians 12:9 NIV
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

If you have been sinned against, remember that we all need God’s grace, and consequently, none of us has a right to refuse to withhold the forgiveness that he so graciously and repeatedly gifts us with.

Questions:
Why should I forgive someone who has wronged me? Why don’t I have a right to be furious and hold a grudge against the wrongdoer?

How does accepting God’s grace and passing it on to others affect me?

Next Steps:
We all want to be forgiven when we mess up. It’s time to realize God calls us to do the same for others as he has done for you. If there is anyone you have wronged, make it right.

Do a Bible study on grace, and spend time each day confessing your sins with God and asking him for forgiveness.

Check out a Step Study through Celebrate Recovery.

Join Lead Pastor Ben Snyder as he leads Morning Prayer. You can participate by visiting any of our church’s social media accounts: Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 26      
Dear God, today we pray to understand the next step you have for us. We want to be people who are always growing on the life-changing adventure—to know you, find freedom, discover purpose, and make a difference. Give us courage to keep growing, keep seeking, and be open to the ways you want to continue writing our life-changing adventure as part of your story. In Jesus’ name, amen.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 27
Heavenly Father, today we pray for our pastors. We thank you for them and their commitment to you and the church. We pray that you will bless them with vision, wisdom, and humility. Help them know and experience you today. Guide their steps as they lead the churches you have entrusted to them. Finally, we pray for their families. Protect them from evil and strengthen their relationships with each other and you. In Jesus’ name, amen.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 28
God, we worship you for who you are and praise you for all you have done. Let our praise and worship be an offering to you, showing the world how thankful we are for your love and grace. Thank you for gifting us with music that touches our hearts and helps us express our joy for who you are. Thank you, God, for giving us a way to ignite our passion for you each and every day. Amen.


This post was written by Martha Smith, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study. Martha describes herself as a lover of Christ who likes to share faith with others.


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You Have a Purpose – Why Prayer…

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Over the last four days, we have looked at the definition of grace and what it means to say grace, like when you are exhausted from trying to get it right, when you feel like you are experiencing something amazing, or when you feel angry and bitter. But last weekend, Lead Pastor Ben Snyder told us that probably the most important time to say grace is when you are evaluating what matters most.

When we look at our lives in our current circumstances—the place where God has put us in history and in our communities—we need to remember that our purpose is not about telling others how amazing our lives are (or all the positive things we post on social media). We need to remember that God pours his grace on us. As undeserving as we are, we have been forgiven. We are on a mission for God. Our purpose is to share the good news about the grace of God!

Pastor Ben said that Jesus started the church to expose the unbelieving world to THE GRACE OF GOD. CedarCreek invites unchurched people to join us on the life-changing adventure of following Christ.

Acts 20:24
“But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus—the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God.”

Paul continued the work of Jesus when he addressed the elders of the Ephesus church in Miletus on his way to Jerusalem. He had hoped to be in Jerusalem on the Day of Pentecost because he had missed Passover and wanted to show his loyalty to Jewish tradition. In addition, it was important for him to go to Jerusalem because he had collected money from various Gentile churches for the Jerusalem relief fund. More paramount was the fact that the Spirit had compelled him to go, even though his fate was uncertain. Despite warnings and his own fears, Paul refused to draw back from his cause of spreading the Good News about the grace of God.

Philippians 3:7-9
7 I once thought these things were valuable, but now I consider them worthless because of what Christ has done. 8 Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ 9 and become one with him. I no longer count on my own righteousness through obeying the law; rather, I become righteous through faith in Christ. For God’s way of making us right with himself depends on faith.

In verses 5-6, Paul gave reasons why he could brag about himself including the fact that he was of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews, a Pharisee, and blameless regarding the law. So how is it that Paul considered the reputation he had built up to be rubbish? It is through Christ, and Christ alone, that he found his worth. The day he accepted Christ as his Lord and Savior, he not only was cleansed of his sins but also gave up all his earthly accomplishments.

We too find our worth in Christ alone. So, we need to realize that our value has nothing to do with us or what we do. Our worth is all about Jesus and what he has done for us. He lived and died a tragic death so that we could be free from sin, for us to be called children of God, and to offer us a life in eternity. HALLELUJAH!

Questions:
Are you living for Jesus Christ and his word? If not, why? Where do you find your worth? Is it in your earthly accomplishments or in your relationship with Jesus?

Next Steps:
Write down what matters the most to you in life. Have you listed things that you think give you worth? Now, read Acts 20:13-38 to see how the Apostle Paul gives an account of how he is a great example to follow when evaluating what matters the most.

Complete GrowthTrack! GrowthTrack is a four-week experience designed to help you to take your first steps in discovering purpose. Find out more about GrowthTrack here.

Check out CedarCreek.tv/21days for prayer resources you can use throughout this season of prayer.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 25      
Dear God, we read in James 5:16 that we need each other to find healing. We confess that we often look for healing in many other places and we hide what’s really going on. Help us to see that when we are in community with others who love you, we’re right where you would have us be. We pray that every Group at our church would be a safe place where people can be real, experience deep connection, and find freedom and healing from whatever struggles they are going through. Amen.


This post was written by Jennifer Macke. Jenn has a son, daughter, granddaughter, and grandson, and she thanks God every day for them. She is enjoying retirement and feels blessed to be writing for LivingItOut. She was raised in an Evangelical Church, but her spiritual life awakened when she started attending CedarCreek.


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Gardening the Soul – Why Prayer…

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As we continued on the journey, Why Prayer…, last weekend, Lead Pastor Ben Snyder dove into the deep end of the business of every follower of Christ.  He had the audacity to say, “When you feel angry and bitter … SAY GRACE.” Clearly, he has not walked a mile in my shoes. He made it sound as though the burden is on me to offer grace to people in my life who have made deposits, by their actions and/or words, causing anger, resentment, and bitterness to erupt in my heart.

“When you feel angry and bitter … SAY GRACE.” There have been countless times when swallowing that pill has caused my gag reflex to quickly engage! Truth be told, were it not for personal spiritual growth and God’s grace, the ability to say grace would be near the top of my mental list titled “Mission Impossible.”

Possibly, that is true of you also. But, with the immeasurable grace God has offered me, I now clearly understand the benefit of offering grace to those best able to stir up anger and bitterness within me. To do otherwise is foolhardy. Bitterness not only corrupts me, it also corrupts others. Hebrews 12:15 speaks to this: “Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many.”

The failure to offer grace to others goes beyond reason. To be clear, we all are in need of the grace God offers. Should we not offer, with much generosity, to others the very thing we all are in desperate need of?

When left unattended, bitterness grows quickly. Bitterness will literally choke out the truth of God’s word when it is allowed to take up residence and given a chance to grow. It is for that reason, daily spiritual disciplines help keep spiritual weeds from taking over. When we choose to cultivate relationships by offering grace to others, God’s reputation is not tarnished. Conversely, God’s reputation is tarnished when followers of Christ fail to offer grace to others. May we never forget, without Christ we are nothing, and we have no good thing to offer without him.

Questions:
What keeps you from offering grace to others? What keeps you from digging deep and pulling out the poisonous root(s) of bitterness within? What steps do you need to take to keep the root of bitterness from reappearing?

Next Steps:
Step into “Grace is Greater” via RightNow media. When we grasp God’s grace for us, we are better equipped to offer grace. For a free subscription to RightNow Media click here.

Join Lead Pastor Ben Snyder as he leads Morning Prayer. You can participate by visiting any of our church’s social media accounts: Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 24
God, you show us, again and again, your heart for those who are far from you. Remind me that I was once far from you. Instill deep in me this passion: to do whatever it takes to love you and others more each day. Exchange my thoughts for yours. Rearrange my priorities to be of one mind with you. Change my heart, God. Help me see that when I am in step with you, it’s the greatest adventure of my life. Amen.


This post was written by Karen Peck. Karen retired in March 2018 from Lucas County Information Services. She has been married over forty years. Karen rejoices over God’s faithfulness and God’s patience in her life and in her marriage. Nothing matters more to Karen than her relationship with God and her entire family. Her immeasurable faith in Christ and His ability to restore the broken runs deep within.


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Amazing Isn’t Average – Why Prayer…

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I knew something special was happening, but the delivery was more than anyone expected. Mr. Carter started with a reverse 360 windmill. The night was over before it even began, but the show went on anyway. Each proceeding moment matched the momentum of the previous one.

That 2000 NBA All-Star weekend was my favorite. It’s the one where Vince Carter showcased his talent for the world to see in the dunk contest. And his nickname, half-man, half-amazing, was born.

Merriam Webster’s Dictionary describes amazing as “causing astonishment, great wonder, or surprise.” So why did Vince’s performance only garner half of the amazing title? There was no slight toward him, but it’s interesting. It’s like the person handing out the nickname knew that something completely amazing can only come from God. It’s perfect in its awesome wonder, which none of us can be. “When it’s amazing, it’s not average. It’s something that the average person can’t do. It’s something that they won’t do.”

Several times during my senior year in high school, the doctors told us my mom probably wouldn’t make it through the night. She got more time.

There was a time in middle school when a severe asthma attack stopped my sister’s heart for five minutes. She’s still here.

Our oldest daughter caused panic in the delivery room when she was born with no movement or sound. She’s as loud as ever.

I was so sick at the age of five that my mom feared she would lose me, but here I am writing this devotional. Sometimes medicine isn’t enough. Science isn’t perfect. Our uncertainty turns into an impossibility, but none of that matters to God’s grace. The experience is better than average. It’s amazing.

John 1:16 NIV
Out of his fullness we have all received grace in place of grace already given. 

Lead Pastor Ben Snyder told us that in light of our reality, God is so generous to us. The only thing we can do with a gift is to receive it. So say “thank you.” Say grace.

Questions:
Have you ever experienced something amazing in your life? What’s the first thing you did when that happened? Do you feel guilty when you experience God’s wonder?

Next Steps:
Say grace when you experience something amazing. Learn more about what grace is by reading your Bible or finding a study on RightNow Media. Start understanding that we as Christians aren’t more deserving than anyone else. We all need God’s grace equally.

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Check out CedarCreek.tv/21days for prayer resources you can use throughout this season of prayer.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 23      
Father, remind us that our children are a gift from you for us to share with the world. Continue to equip us with the ability to raise them to follow your truth and discover their purpose. Thank you for giving our children the best of our qualities without losing their individuality. Grant us patience when we feel our child’s rebellious nature pulling them from their path of faith. Let us not forget that we, too, endured a season or more of doubt, pride, or selfishness. Help us to trust you are at work in all things. Amen.


This post was written by Jaron Camp, a regular contributor to the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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Say, Grace – Why Prayer…

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Romans 3:23
23 For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. 24 Yet God, in his grace, freely makes us right in his sight. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins.

How you decide to respond to the above verses is the most important decision you have to make in your life. Your response affects your ability to have a relationship with God today, and it determines whether or not you will spend eternity with him.

Lead Pastor Ben Snyder shared three postures that people take when responding. As you read through them, reflect on them and think about which posture you are taking today.

The first posture is a resisting posture. Hearing we fall short and that we are not good enough can be hard to hear, so in this posture, we decide to ignore it, telling ourselves it isn’t true. We lean on the affirmations we receive from those around us. Affirmations that say we are perfect just the way we are. We also lean on the assurances we tell ourselves. Sure, we make mistakes, but overall, we are good people.  In the grand scheme of things, we are not that bad. These affirmations are an attempt to minimize the reality of our situation.

The second posture we take is we religiously try to fix the problem of sin on our own. We recognize that God is perfect and we are not. There is a gap that needs to be filled, so we try to fill it. We go to church, read our Bibles, and try to do all the “right” things that we think please God, hoping that will make us acceptable to him. Of course, all these actions are good, but they will never bring us to God’s standard of perfection.

Ephesians 2:8
God saved you by his grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. 

The last posture Ben talked about was a posture of receiving. This posture recognizes the problem presented in Romans 3:23 but accepts and receives the truth of Romans 3:24. This posture focuses on the free grace God offers to you and me. It sees that God is a generous, loving God, who paid the price for our sins through Jesus’ death on the cross.

When we are in a posture of receiving, we recognize that grace is the free, unmerited favor of God. In this posture, we understand that there is nothing we can do to make God love us anymore … and there is nothing we can do to make God love us any less. Grace is a generous gift from God, offered to us in every circumstance of life.

To remember this truth, Ben encouraged us this weekend to “say grace.” Saying grace is trusting God’s generosity in spite of our reality. If you are exhausted from trying to get it right, say grace. If you have made a mess of things, say grace. If you’ve experienced something amazing, say grace.

No matter where you are or what you are experiencing, take a posture to receive and say grace as you trust in God’s generosity today.

Questions:
Read Romans 3:23-24. What does verse 23 tell us is true about everyone?

According to verse 24, how are we made right in the sight of God?

When it comes to Romans 3:23-24, what posture have you taken?

Next Steps:
Say grace. No matter the circumstance you find yourself in today, begin trusting God’s generosity.

Join Lead Pastor Ben Snyder as he leads Morning Prayer. You can participate by visiting any of our church’s social media accounts: Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube.

21 Days of Prayer: Day 22
Dear God, I pray for your spirit to strengthen our marriages and families. You know exactly what each marriage needs, and I pray you would meet those needs. Allow our families to grow stronger, and help them to build their foundation on you. I pray that parents would represent you well to their children, and ask for your help in giving children hearts that grow in their love for you. Amen.


This post was written by Ben Bockert. Ben is a proud husband and father of three beautiful daughters. He is honored to serve as the Director of the LivingItOut Bible Study.


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