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Before I Die I Want To…
Heal the Hurt Between Us
Lee Powell, Senior Pastor
August 13 & 14, 2011
The Key: O________ Forgiveness to Those Who Have Hurt Me and Ask For Forgiveness From Those I’ve Hurt.
Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” “No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven! MATTHEW 18:21,22
“So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.” MATTHEW 5:23,24
Forgive Those Who Have Hurt Me. . .
BECAUSE GOD HAS F__________ ME.
Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort. Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ. EPHESIANS 4:31,32
BECAUSE R_____________ DOESN’T WORK.
Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many. HEBREWS 12:15
BECAUSE I N _____ FORGIVENESS IN THE FUTURE.
But when you are praying, first forgive anyone you are holding a grudge against, so that your Father in heaven will forgive your sins, too. MARK 11:25
Ask Forgiveness From Those I Have Hurt
Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. ROMANS 12:18
MAKE A LIST OF THOSE I’VE H________ AND WHAT I DID.
“So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.” MATTHEW 5:23-24
THINK OF HOW I’D LIKE OTHERS TO M______ THE A_____OF ME.
Do to others as you would like them to do to you. LUKE 6:31
All Scripture is from the New Living Translation unless otherwise noted.
Living It Out – Discussion Questions
(Discuss these questions in your LifeGroup and/or with your family and friends.)
1. In this weekend’s message, Lee discussed how it is so easy for us to assume that God will forgive us for our mistakes, yet we struggle to forgive others. Who are you struggling to forgive? Why have you been unable to forgive them?
2. Whenever we are hurt by others, we often hold onto those hurts as proof of their wrongdoing. Why is forgiveness the key to healing the hurts that happen in our interpersonal relationships? Conversely, how does resentment destroy the one who holds the grudge?
3. At some point or another every one of us has offended, hurt or devastated someone else. Too often, stubbornness or pride keeps us from admitting our wrongdoing. Who do you need to ask forgiveness from in order to begin the healing process of that relationship?
4. After listening to this weekend’s message and these discussion questions, what action steps do you feel God has placed on your heart?
Living It Out – Scripture Memory
(Memorize this verse for the month of August.)
EPHESIANS 2:10 (New Living Translation)
For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created
us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the
good things he planned for us long ago.